both people involved in a situation are equally responsible
在某种情况下，参与的人都有同等的责任 (zai mouzhong qingkuang xia, canyu de ren dou you tongdeng de zeren)
"You can't blame only him for the argument - it takes two to tango."
"你不能只怪他争论 - 跳探戈需要两个人。" (ni buneng zhi guai ta zhenglun - **tiao tangge xuyao liang ge ren**)
to do something very important that will be remembered
so stressed or tired that one can hardly cope
to try to match your neighbors or peers in wealth or possess...
In the planning or design stage
completely exhausted or near collapse
To inquire wisely to gain understanding.
