to recover after a difficult period; to regain stability
在艰难的时期之后恢复；恢复稳定 (zai jinnan de shiqi zhihou huifu; huifu wending)
"It took him several months to get back on his feet after the breakup."
"分手后他花了几个月才重新站起来。" (fen shou hou ta hua le ji ge yue cai **chong xin zhan qi lai**.)
to start crying a little
to find ways to avoid or overcome difficulties
to distance yourself to view a situation more clearly
to add something extra for free; to include casually
to go past what you thought was possible
to give up in despair or frustration
