a gentle outward appearance hiding strong control
強い支配を隠す優雅な外見
"Her leadership style is an iron fist in a velvet glove."
"彼女のリーダーシップスタイルは鉄拳にベルベットの手袋です。"
very sad and emotionally hurt
to be aware of potential problems or discrepancies
Wait until a situation becomes clear or calm.
to change your opinion or the way you feel about something
Mutual compromise or cooperation.
to become involved in order to help or stop something